Instant Motherhood??

Debbie posted on her blog how, for her, instant motherhood didn't equate to feeling instantly like a Mommy. I started to write this in her comments section, but it got longer and longer, so I decided I'd just make it a post of my own.

I think with us, having C in the NICU for a week was a blessing in disguise. That gave us a mandatory incubation period. By that I don't mean the time he was in an incubator :O) rather a time when we were just alone without a lot of people around (if you don't count all the nurses and doctors.) I am thankful he was one of the most "well" babies in the NICU - it was scary enough as it was. But that gave me hours of just sitting quietly beside him, getting to know him and talk to him and just stare at him while he slept. By the time I could finally hold him, we had certainly already begun connecting.

Being in the delivery room and being right beside the little warming table they lay them on right away, and being one of the first faces he saw (aside from nurses) I am sure helped. Although it was just completely surreal. Like I'd taken some weird trip into TLC and landed in a combo of "A Baby Story" & "Adoption Stories!"

Since Hubby was on his way back from Dallas while C was being born and I was all alone on the adventure, I think the protective Mama lion immediately came out in me. And that carried over into the NICU since I was there alone most of the time while Hubby worked and held down the fort at home and then came over (it is an hour drive) at some point in each day.

The first few weeks home were hard. I'd never been through the newborn phase personally and it is MUCH different than bringing home an 11 month old rigidly sleep trained child. The sleep deprivation was the worst thing and the biggest road block. There's just no way around that.

And I must admit (Hubby and hundreds of others will say "I told you so") there is some magical bond between a Mommy and her baby boy. I really didn't understand beforehand, how could I? But it has happened to me.

So, to sum it all up, I think I bonded with C more quickly than I did with D. Not that I don't love D now with all my heart, but it took me about 3 months to really feel like I was her Mommy. But I think just having the experience of C's first days attributed to our quicker bonding.

10 MONTHS OLD !!!

Can you believe I am already 10 months old!?!?

It's hair raising!

Hee hee, do you like my after the bath hair-do? If they decide to remake Seinfeld in 2038 I can play Kramer!

AT THE ZOO

D's second grade class visited the zoo on Tuesday. I went along to help out and ended up as "mama" to four children. We had a great time, but a storm came up and ended the day a couple hours earlier than expected.

D rode home with me instead of on the bus, so I went ahead and took her to feed the birds after the busses left. While she was feeding the birds and catching birds on her stick, for some reason the birds liked the mesh on my shoes. It was a bit ticklish with all those birds pecking on my shoe!

OUTSIDE

C loves to be outside in the sunshine.

But he still isn't sure if he loves the grass or not???

I need to cook

I really need to start cooking more. I run out of ideas and the same ol' stuff gets boring.

You'll notice I added a bunch of mom blogs on my bloglist that have gobs of ideas for quick, easy, cheap dinners.

The one named $5 Dinners is a good one and she is on Rachel Ray today! It comes on here in 22 minutes. I can't wait to watch!

So, what am I making for dinner tonight? I dunno. Maybe I'll figure something out watching Rachel Ray :O)

Just some cuteness . . .

Springtime by DY 2nd Grade

I was going through the schoolwork D brought home yesterday ( I keep EVERYTHING in a Rubbermaid tote).

When I read this poem she wrote, I said, "Wow!"

So, this proud Mama will share with you an original work by DY:

SPRINGTIME

It's Easter, a grand old day,

eggs are hidden in every which way.

Rabbits hop all day long,

bees buzz along, small but strong.

Children play there and here,

I can tell that Spring is near.